Coaching — Bonobo Network

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Getting outside perspectives can be a powerful tool in your journey to getting the love, intimacy, and community you crave.
Most of us grew up in a world that devalues joy and connection, that promotes disordered relationships to sexuality, pleasure, and one another.
It takes work, community, and, most importantly, it takes support to unlearn the perspectives and habits that keep us from growing our capacity for playful, joyous, pleasurable connection.
Bonobo’s organizers William Winters and Misha Bonaventura are here to help you get the most out of your explorations in life, love, and intimacy. Read on to learn more about their approaches, then schedule a FREE 15-minute consultation call with William or Misha.

Coaching with William

You can have more freedom. More connection. Less shame. Better relationships. More play. More fun. I’m a Somatica Institute-trained coach – let's explore how I can help you achieve your goals.

Do you ever feel like you could get MORE out of your sex life and you'd like help imagining what's possible for you?
Do you want to learn how to get the most out of communities and spaces like the ones Bonobo provides?
Would you like to develop new skills in the bedroom or try new things?
Is it sometimes hard to create or maintain the connection you crave - friends, lovers, or community?
Do you want to design your own relationship style & love outside the box?
Would you like to better resolve conflicts in your relationships or communities?
Have you developed patterns in your relationships that no longer serve you, and you want to get unstuck?
Do you want to start to see connection as an abundant resource instead of a scarce commodity?
Would you like help as you navigate alternative sexuality and relationship communities?
Have you ever hurt someone by crossing their boundaries and you want to start the journey towards accountability, understanding, and healing?

If you answered YES to any of these questions, let's talk TODAY about how I can support you.

For the last decade I've built thriving communities and designed extraordinary experiences that have helped thousands of people explore their sexuality, try new relationship styles, develop lifelong friendships, build new bedroom skills, and even heal old emotional wounds.

I began to notice that folks who got the most out of the experiences had what I call a "High Possibility, Low Expectation" attitude. I've designed my community, my events, and my coaching around this principle. In its highest expression, it means:

living more fully in the present moment, with greater awareness of possibilities, opportunities, and risks;
developing a well-articulated understanding of your own needs, boundaries, and desires – and the circumstances that help you feel most connected to them;
collaboratively and playfully bringing your needs and desires into conversation with those of others;
prioritizing others' consent and agency, even (especially!) when it means not getting exactly what we want.

These are the pillars of the High Possibility, Low Expectation approach. I work in three main areas:

Sex and Pleasure
Relationships and Connection
Accountability and Repair

Click here to start a conversation with William

Misha Bonaventura, Relationship Coaching

You are stepping into a whole new world.

Navigating new worlds can be tricky.

Luckily, you can get help along the way.

Misha is here to support your journey from dipping your toe in to taking the plunge. Whether you’re opening your relationship, exploring your sexuality, or stepping into dating she is here for you.

Misha has more than a decade of experience of exploring and creating sex-postive community, alternative relations, and breaking through hetero-normative and mono-normative patterns. She explores at the intersections of mindfulness, communication practices, and inner dialogue work. She’s informed by her own journey of developing secure attachment, compassionate communication practices, and sexual expression.

Some subjects you might be exploring that she’d love to support you with:

Inner Work for Outer Enjoyment