Learn About Bonobo Membership

Becoming a member gives you entry into our growing community of people who recognize that monogamy isn't the best option for everyone and that pleasure comes in many different packages. ​Membership will give you access to in-person and virtual parties, workshops, retreats, potlucks, happy hours, and discussion groups. In short, we help people create real, lasting connections with others who value consent, empathy, accountability, inclusion, learning, and community. If that sounds like your cup of tea, you just might be a Bonobo. And you may have found your people.

We have a strong value to create inclusivity for anyone who feels resonant with our principals and values. Part of our mission is to support people to be Bonobo members no matter their income status. We provide sliding scale options for all our services.

We understand that the ability to pay for this service may be very affordable for some and a hardship for others. We want as many of you to have access to Bonobo Network no matter your circumstances. We encourage you to choose the level of membership that is right for you no matter your current income status. If your life circumstances leave you in a financially stretched place, please take your discounted membership without guilt. If your circumstances change, we will appreciate it when you are able to pay for the standard membership. Alternatively, if you find yourself with ample financial means, we’d appreciate you offering your support with a higher priced membership knowing that you’re putting your money into a community you believe in, as well as, supporting those who cannot afford a standard membership.

Standard Membership

  • Annual

    $150

    Our Annual Standard Membership gets you into our online social space, invites to all our private events (mostly in the SF Bay Area), and tons of education and connection opportunities whether you are near or far.

  • Monthly

    $15

    Our Monthly Standard Membership gets you into our online social space, invites to all our private events (mostly in the SF Bay Area), and tons of education and connection opportunities whether you are near or far.

PrimeMate Membership

  • Lover

    $275

    Our Lover Membership benefits include special discounts on Bonobo Network and partner events.

  • Angel

    $500

    Our Angel Membership allows you to apply your PrimeMate discounts to up to two additional people who haven’t yet become premium members. You also get access to discounted coaching sessions from William and Misha.

  • Sustainer

    $750

    Our Sustainer Membership allows you to apply your PrimeMate discounts to up to two additional people who haven’t yet become premium members. You also get access to discounted coaching sessions from William and Misha.

  • Superstar

    $900

    Our Superstar Membership allows you to apply your PrimeMate discounts to up to two additional people who haven’t yet become premium members. You also get access to one FREE coaching session from William or Misha, a $200 value.

Low Income Membership

  • Annual

    Our Annual Low Income Membership is $75 and gets you into our online social space, invites to all our private events (SF Bay Area), and tons of education and connection opportunities whether you are near or far.

  • Monthly

    Our Monthly Standard Membership is $15 and gets you into our online social space, invites to all our private events (SF Bay Area), and tons of education and connection opportunities whether you are near or far.

  • Hardship

    Our Hardship Membership is $0 and for those who absolutely cannot afford our low income memberships. Please contact info@bonobonetwork.com to request this membership.