Learn About Bonobo Membership

Becoming a member gives you entry into our growing community of people who recognize that monogamy isn't the best option for everyone and that pleasure comes in many different packages. ​Membership will give you access to in-person and virtual parties, workshops, retreats, potlucks, happy hours, and discussion groups. In short, we help people create real, lasting connections with others who value consent, empathy, accountability, inclusion, learning, and community. If that sounds like your cup of tea, you just might be a Bonobo. And you may have found your people.

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Standard Membership

  • Annual

    $200

    Our Annual Standard Membership gets you into our online social space, invites to all our private events (mostly in the SF Bay Area), and tons of education and connection opportunities whether you are near or far.

  • Monthly

    $20

    Our Monthly Standard Membership gets you into our online social space, invites to all our private events (mostly in the SF Bay Area), and tons of education and connection opportunities whether you are near or far.

PrimeMate Membership

  • Lover

    $300

    Our Lover Membership benefits include special discounts on Bonobo Network and partner events.

  • Angel

    $500

    Our Angel Membership allows you to apply your PrimeMate discounts to up to two additional people who haven’t yet become premium members.

  • Sustainer

    $750

    Our Sustainer Membership allows you to apply your PrimeMate discounts to up to two additional people who haven’t yet become premium members.

  • Superstar

    $900

    Our Superstar Membership allows you to apply your PrimeMate discounts to up to two additional people who haven’t yet become premium members.

Low Income Membership

  • Annual

    Our Annual Low Income Membership is $100 and gets you into our online social space, invites to all our private events (SF Bay Area), and tons of education and connection opportunities whether you are near or far.

  • Monthly

    Our Monthly Low Income Membership is $10 and gets you into our online social space, invites to all our private events (SF Bay Area), and tons of education and connection opportunities whether you are near or far.

  • Hardship

    Our Hardship Membership is $0 and for those who absolutely cannot afford our low income memberships. Please contact info@bonobonetwork.com to request this membership.