Bonobo Potluck: San Leandro
Date & Time: Wednesday, September 30th 6pm-10pm
Location: Redwood City, CA
Full address will be provided to registered attendees.
Bonobo Potlucks are a cozy, casual way for Bonobos to gather, share a meal, and build deeper connections with one another.
Members of the Bonobo community are opening their homes and spaces to host potlucks in different parts of the Bay. Our hope is to make these gatherings more accessible to folks throughout the region while creating smaller, community-centered opportunities to connect.
Attendance is limited, and you must RSVP in advance to attend this potluck. Please do not bring unregistered guests without approval, as we may not be able to accommodate additional people once the event reaches capacity.
Schedule:
6:00 PM Doors open
7:30 PM Group Discussion
8:30 PM Return to freeform socializing
10:00 PM Party’s over! Strike begins.
Topic of Discussion: Metamour Relationships
What kind of relationship do you want with your metamours?
Some people love building close friendships or chosen family with their partners’ partners. Others prefer to be friendly acquaintances, keep relationships mostly separate, or have little interaction at all. There’s no one “right” way to do it!
We’ll talk about the different ways metamour relationships can look, what helps them thrive, navigating boundaries and expectations, and what happens when the relationship you want with a metamour isn’t the relationship they want with you.
Come ready to share your experiences, perspectives, questions, and maybe learn something from how others navigate the wonderful (and sometimes complicated!) world of metamours.