Bonobo Potluck: Oakland
Date & Time: Sunday, October 18th 5pm-9pm
Location: Oakland City, CA
Full address will be provided to registered attendees.
Bonobo Potlucks are a cozy, casual way for Bonobos to gather, share a meal, and build deeper connections with one another.
Members of the Bonobo community are opening their homes and spaces to host potlucks in different parts of the Bay. Our hope is to make these gatherings more accessible to folks throughout the region while creating smaller, community-centered opportunities to connect.
Attendance is limited, and you must RSVP in advance to attend this potluck. Please do not bring unregistered guests without approval, as we may not be able to accommodate additional people once the event reaches capacity.
Schedule:
5-6pm - Arrival, mingling, eating
6-7pm - Large group discussion, eating
7-8pm - Small group discussions
7-7:30pm - Intro and 1st small group
7:30-8pm - Transition and 2nd small group
8-9pm - Socialize, eat, pack up
Topic of Discussion: Structure & Autonomy
Discussion topics:
Large group: What's a norm in mono relationship culture you've kept in your ENM relationships, and one you've dropped?
Small group 1: Hierarchy, useful structure or something you're actively trying to get away from?
Small group 2: How much should a partner's other partner have a say in your relationship?